Let me tell you how i like people around me to be...
According to me, everyone must have their own unique identity i.e., a person must be himself/herself irrespective of the person with whom he/she is. I mean to say that, when two different people get together and speak about me, they must have a common opinion about me because i have an identity of my own. Some people like my characteristics so they become my friends but there are some who will never like my ideas and approach.... Now what can be done about this?? NOTHING.... Let them be under the impression that i am bad. I need not change my behaviour to suit these few people when i'm with them. I will be myself with whoever it is. Thats me.... This is what i expect from my friends.
Now tell me... how many are like this? I myself have come across some people who completely change their identity depending on whom they are with. This multiple personality is something which i hate... but there are some people who contradict this.. according to them we must be flexible and adjust with the people around us i.e., to move along the flow. What do you say? Do write your opinion about this in the comments section.
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There is one saying in kannada called "AVARU AVARANTHE! IVARU IVARANTHE! BAGEDHU NODIDHARE THANU THANANTHE" so irrespective of how u will be with people, if u have ur own identity within yourself thats more than enough.. unless u r acting according to situations just to make people around u happy and not for ur self desires.....
ACCORDING TO ME
I think majority of the people are like that. But its not being flexible, but its like selling one's soul every time they compromise for the situation or for the people. One can have only one identity, even if that person fakes his identity, he will be aware of his true identity.
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